How are you with expressing your feelings? Do you feel understood?
How important is love? How do you maintain your intimate relationships?
How important are close relationships to you?
How are you with letting people close?
As a kid what would you have wanted more from your parents?
How hard is it for your to receive compared with giving? What did you want from your parents as a child but never got? How relevant is that now?
How important is loss? When do you feel guilty? When do you feel valued?
How important is it that you belong?
How important is being close to others? What are you fearful of? What makes to feel safe?
How important is control? Being in control? What makes you feel safe?
How hard are you on yourself? How important is it to meet other’s expectations?
How are you with regards to decisions? When do you get stuck making a decision?