LI: My past prevents me from choosing well now. Lu: My choices lead to grief. I grieve over lost opportunities.,
SJ: Other people give me no choice. I need to put others first before I make choices for myself. SI: No one understands my choices. I communicate what is behind my decisions with other people. I listen to my heart when I make decisions. Bl: I am controlled by others. I must consult others before making a decision. I know what is right for me.
Bl: I need approval; I am free to be myself. Control. I’m in charge of my life.,